Resilience
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I've been told i'm quite Fancy.
"Because you should never tell someone they complete you. You should feel whole even when you are by yourself. There’s a GREAT difference between needing someone and wanting someone. Something people FAIL to realize. Needing a certain someone is not love but dependency. If you base your whole relationship on them completing you and your happiness because of them, what the hell is left of you when you realize they don’t complete shit. Wanting a person to become a part of your life is the best reason for having them. Just because someone tells you they want you part of their life, doesn’t mean they need you. Correct me if I’m wrong, but people should stop searching for someone who will complete them, but rather wait for a person who will COMPLIMENT their COMPLETENESS."
YV
Very interesting FB debate I observed.
Winter Goals
Just came across this old document Fancy wrote out for me after my breakup..
Rediscovering/building a new Jessica<3
Rediscovering: Spontaneous, fun, social, crazyyyy Jessica
Building: Independent, confident, assertive, proactive
Check. Check. Check. All of the above, check. It has been a crazy ride since January but honestly, I couldn’t be happier with where I’m currently at. Life has been insanely good.. Forever grateful and extremely blessed.
